One of things I love about the real estate game is that it is all about people. Sure, bricks and mortar are involved, but it is people who build, sell and buy property. Try as they might to remain unemotional, the fact is that very few people can be clear-headed, particularly when it comes to buying or selling their own home. This personal involvement intensifies if the property for sale has been lovingly renovated by its owners. Even investors can get very personal when it comes to choosing a property to add to their portfolio and selling it down the track.
So one thing to never lose sight of when negotiating on a property is that the owners are human beings with very real emotions and sometimes very irrational ideas on what their property is worth. Everybody loves a bargain when they buy but nobody wants to “give their property away”. Even in a forced sale situation, there is a difference between the seller walking away feeling resolved about taking a loss over them leaving the deal feeling fleeced.
It is crucial when negotiating to understand the concept of win-win. This means that both parties come away from the negotiating table with the feeling that they have achieved something. If a deal is struck, the buyer gets to buy the property, which is an obvious win for them. Ideally the purchaser feels like they paid a fair price and the seller feels like they achieved a fair price. But is is not always possible, particularly if the vendor’s expectations are too high or if the market has dropped since they purchased the property.
In a sellers market, the buyer may be the one to feel remorse after paying “too much”. But in a buyers market the person who takes the hit is the owner. And if you expect somebody to take less than they want for their home, you will be more likely to achieve a favourable outcome if you haven’t insulted the vendor during the negotiation process.
There are so many ways to deliver an offer and buyers often forget life’s little niceties in this situation. How often have we met sellers who have been put offside by the manner in which the buyer has wielded their market power? And then they dig their heels in and refuse to negotiate further with that particular buyer. Or they drop their asking price to a more realistic level and find another buyer, who they favour over the first one, sometimes even at a lesser price.
I love the saying “honey attracts more flies than vinegar” and it certainly applies to property negotiation. How you deliver your offer can make the difference between acceptance and refusal. Show empathy for the owner who needs to take less if they want to sell, don’t be arrogant. Work with the selling agent to get them to prepare the vendor before delivering a low offer, give them some sort of advance notice so that the offer isn’t a rude shock. And if your offer is at market value, you will no doubt be able to get the agent on side. But if you insist on making an offer that is way below market value you run the risk of alienating both the agent and the seller, which greatly reduces your chance of getting any subsequent offers accepted even if you reach a fair price.
Regular readers of my blog will now that I often talk about getting the “ducks lined up” before making an offer on a property. We often see buyers making bids far to early in the process and long before they are in a position to sign a contract. But in the time it takes to complete the due diligence, it is important to employ some “pre-negotiation” tactics. Communicate with the agent and keep them posted on where you are up to in your own process. Don’t just go silent then turn up with a signed contract and expect everybody to jump for joy.
Just remember that you are dealing with people who have feelings and probably take the sale of their home very personally. Even if they have to take a dive on the eventual sale price, their half of the win-win equation will be knowing they got the best price that market was likely to offer, that their agent worked hard for them and that they can now move on with their lives.




Now I do not know why some agents persist in getting a holding deposit from buyers since, in NSW, once you have had an offer accepted on a property there is absolutely nothing binding until contracts have exchanged. 



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